Creating a Life Bigger than Grief

This book isn’t just for someone who has lost a loved one. It is for anyone going through dark times when life didn’t go as planned or if you’ve lost your way. It will give you the tools and the mindset for climbing out of the depths of despair or depression, and will shine a ray of hope on the most important truths that Melissa shared… “Happiness and healing is a choice.” And that “Joy is possible again.” Free yourself from the bondages of guilt, loss or sadness and start living again. Take your first step towards joyous freedom. Buy this book!

Dear Drew: Creating A Life Bigger Than Grief, is a profoundly moving and heartfelt story. Every one of its 200-plus pages captivates the reader. Anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of grief should read this book, as it offers invaluable insights for healing. As I delved into each chapter, I found myself unable to put the book down. Each section was so compelling, filled with practical tips drawn from her own healing journey. Melissa shares wonderful recommendations for the books that helped her and outlines various healing strategies she explored along the way. Throughout the narrative, I could deeply feel her pain and her immense love for Drew. Reading about her healing journey was both inspiring and poignant; it was a testament to her resilience. Though the path was not easy and took a considerable amount of time, she never lost hope. I was particularly struck by her determination to heal amidst the agony and her courage to discover what worked best for her.

Melissa has opened my eyes to so many of my own limitations and daring me to break free.

Melissa Hull’s Dear Drew is a profound and compassionate companion for anyone navigating the depths of grief. With unflinching honesty and a heart full of wisdom, Melissa offers not just hope but a roadmap for transformation. She reminds us that while grief can shape us, it does not have to define us. This book is an invitation to heal, to rediscover joy, and to create a life that honors both our loss and our limitless potential. A truly extraordinary guide to the resilience of the human spirit.

As someone who has mentored Melissa, I’ve seen her profound transformation after the devastating loss of her son, Drew. Through decades of personal struggle and study, Melissa has crafted a unique approach that goes beyond academic theory.

Melissa’s wisdom, stories, and exercises will guide you through the process, but it’s up to you to do the work. As my mentor Dr. Johnnie Colemon said, “It works if you work it.” Melissa works, and if you're reading this, you're ready to begin your own healing.

Healing is waiting for you. Let Melissa guide you on this journey

I’ve known Melissa for years, and while I can’t fathom the heartbreak of losing a child, watching her transform her grief into a purpose-driven life has been remarkable. Beyond healing herself, Melissa’s unwavering commitment to helping others navigate loss is nothing short of extraordinary. Her journey of resilience, hope, and compassion shines through in Dear Drew. This book isn’t just for parents grieving a child—it’s for anyone facing loss, whether it’s love, friendship, or a career. Melissa’s tools and insights provide guidance for those feeling lost, offering support, understanding, and actionable advice. Reading her book helped me address challenges I didn’t even realize I was struggling with. Loss has a way of sneaking up, and Dear Drew serves as a beacon for navigating those moments. I highly recommend this book, along with her podcast, to anyone seeking clarity, comfort, and encouragement. Melissa’s compassion and wisdom make her a true light for those facing life’s darkest moments. Dear Drew is a breakthrough resource, offering readers a reminder that they can find strength, hope, and purpose in the face of loss.

Melissa Hull is so clear about what remains after the loss of a loved one. She opens her heart and speaks with love and compassion to all that are ready to find their way through the pain and discover their possibilities. She does so unapologetically, reminding us all that we have the power to choose a life of joy even when it seems impossible to us

Thanks to Melissa I am learning to grow through my loss. Her ability to openly share what she has learned after the tragic loss of her son has been so helpful as I reimagine my life now that my daughter is no longer with me. She shared with me the things she found useful as she went on her own healing journey and it gives me hope that I will get through mine

As a medium, I understand how fleeting moments of connection with departed loved ones can bring profound comfort. But Dear Drew goes far beyond momentary solace. Melissa Hull has not only lived through the depths of grief but has discovered a path to lasting healing, transformation, and deeper connection with those we’ve lost. Her intuitive guidance empowers readers to honor the presence of their loved ones in their daily lives, find strength to heal, and rebuild with love and meaning as guiding forces. This book is a deeply transformative gift for anyone seeking not just comfort, but the courage and tools to grow and thrive after loss.

I have had the privilege of knowing my dear friend Melissa for several years, and watching her journey through unimaginable grief after the loss of her son Drew has been both heartbreaking and inspiring. Her strength, resilience and unwavering love have shone through every step of the way. Writing her book, she has transformed her pain into a powerful testament to healing and hope. Through her words she not only honors her son’s memory but also offers a guiding light for others facing similar heartache. Her ability to find joy and meaning after such loss is a true testament to her courage and heart.

It's been said that Grief is LOVE with nowhere to go! I applaud Melissa Hull for crafting such a fantastic book on such an important topic. A topic that needs much more conversation. I lost my mother over 12 years ago at the time of the publishing of this book, and I can truly say that I wish I had this resource back then. What I enjoy most about Dear Drew: Creating a Life Bigger Than Grief is that Melissa walks you through the processes and stages of the grief in your life and then gives you a simple and clear roadmap to help you design an amazing life on your own terms that you will love. We all need help "moving forward" after the loss of something or someone significant to us, yet, we also understand that it's a necessary and unavoidable part of life as well. As you read this book, don't just read it for head knowledge, but read it for heart, hands and foot knowledge too. Allow the concepts, principles and strategies, stories and lessons learned from this book, to propel you mentally, emotionally, spiritually, professionally, financially, and interpersonally past what has hurt you, so that you can live FREE, HEALED, and WHOLE! Excited for your Journey!

A deeply personal journey from unimaginable loss to self-discovery and hope. As a psychiatrist, I have spent my career helping others navigate pain, confusion, and despair. But I have also faced my own profound loss—the tragic accident that took my young son’s life. This book is not just about grief; it’s about what comes after. It’s about the choice to move beyond survival, to learn about oneself, and to discover what is possible despite the pain. Written with raw honesty, I share my struggles, failures, and revelations, offering practical tools to help others examine their lives, challenge limiting beliefs, and take action toward healing. Grief is inevitable, but it does not have to define us. This book is a testament that you are not alone—and that there is more beyond the pain.